My Approach
The foundation of my work is relational. I often draw perspective from Attachment Theory. Difficult and painful experiences often happen within relationship(s) so the healing process can be ideal within the safe and trusting relationship that therapy can offer. As such, I tend to work with folks longer-term. This also means that we will explore lots of the relationships you have in your life. The ways in which we were treated in relationships naturally shows up in our relationship dynamics as adults. Experiences such as anxiety, depression, difficulty sleeping, low self-worth, perfectionism, self-harm, and diets are just some of the clues on the surface that underlying relational experiences are present.
The therapy experience is different for everyone. My relational style often involves conversation, curiosity, humor, occasional references from the TV show The Office, and lots of compassion. I’ll offer up perspectives to help make sense of experiences, regularly identify intersections and systems of oppression, and gently challenge when appropriate and with consent. I’ll collaborate and strategize with you to navigate situations. This process centers you!
I’m a therapist who does their own therapy. I know firsthand how difficult it can be to reach out for support. Learning to engage with shame and practicing vulnerability is hard. With that in mind, I welcome you as you are and will ensure our work together goes at pace that works for you. Caring for your mental health is a radically awesome act. You’re SO worth it!